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Today is now or never.
Everything is riding on this.

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Previously...

3
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I want to have
my happily ever after.

4
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Hi! Nice to meet you. And you.

5
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For two new strangers...

6
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Stunning eyes!

7
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..it was a fairy tale beginning
to married life.

8
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This does feel like someone that
I could fall in love with.

9
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Golden envelope! Ohhh!

10
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For the existing couples...

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It's in-laws week.

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Brilliant.

13
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Oh, God. Hi, guys! Come in.

14
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..welcoming friends and family...

15
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He is a puppy dog, realistically,
that just wants love.

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..prompted a breakthrough
for Grace and Ashley.

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There's so much I do love about Ash.

18
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I am feeling way more hopeful now.

19
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Tonight...

20
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THEY LAUGH AND CHEER

21
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I'm first, I'm first! Hi, guys.

22
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..as in-laws week continues,

23
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an inquisitive mother...

24
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So have you had sex?

25
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When was the last time you had anal?

26
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..gets more than she bargained for.

27
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No, not...not that!
Like, just sex in general.

28
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And protective friends...

29
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I don't agree with people that,
like, shout to communicate.

30
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You yelled at me multiple times.

31
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Did I not take accountability
for it? I think you didn't.

32
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..pull Julia-Ruth and Divarni
further apart.

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If I feel like I'm being attacked
verbally, my body will shut down.

34
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This isn't normal.

35
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And two new singles...

36
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Getting married will change my life.

37
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It's just that final piece
of the puzzle.

38
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..meet and marry at first sight.

39
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I actually fancy him.

40
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I'm ovulating, you know,
I'm like, ohhh!

41
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But an overexcited bride...

42
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SCREAMS

43
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..rings alarm bells for her groom.

44
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She's 100mph,

45
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that I hope doesn't turn to
1,000mph.

46
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Buckle up,
cos he's in for a good ride!

47
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Morning, wife. I love the energy!

48
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Good morning, husband.

49
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How do you feel waking up a wife?
It's nice.

50
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Is the ring still on the finger?
Yeah. I like having it on.

51
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Yeah, same, same.
Waking up and looking at John,

52
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I was still just staring
into his eyes.

53
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He still has the most amazing eyes.
Even in the morning.

54
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Does yesterday just feel like
a bit of a mad dream?

55
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It was the best day, though,
honestly.

56
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I couldn't have asked
a better husband

57
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to wake up next to. Aww! Honestly!

58
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I feel a spark already with Abby.

59
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It felt so natural waking up
with her this morning

60
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and I'm just excited to learn
more about her.

61
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As Abigail and John
settle into married life,

62
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another hopeful single
prepares to enter the experiment.

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Max!

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LAUGHS
He's pretending to cry.

65
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He's such a little attention-seeker,
isn't he? Oh, like his auntie.

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SINGSONG: Hello!

67
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I would describe myself as bubbly,

68
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scatty, a bit crazy.

69
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I never stop talking.

70
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Energy! Where's the energy?

71
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At school, I was constantly
being told to, "Shh."

72
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Did I listen? No.

73
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Single! Ready to mingle!

74
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I work for a dental company.

75
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I have kissed guys in the past
where I've thought, ooh,

76
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you've got gum disease.

77
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The reason why I am single is
because I am oozing desperation.

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If I meet a guy that
I even just a little bit like,

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I am full-on, I am in love.

80
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First thing I say is
"I want a family,

81
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"I want a big house,
I want this, I want that."

82
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And they go, "Whoa, she's a lot!"

83
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That is what scares everyone.

84
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So I'm too much.

85
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You're a bit full-on.
Too much energy?

86
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Yes, definitely. I think, yes, you
need to just tone it down a bit.

87
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Yes. I love how positive you are
of your daughter!

88
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89
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I'm such a hopeless romantic.

90
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Anybody that knows me
knows that I am desperately

91
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looking to find The One.

92
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And I feel like guys like the chase.

93
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They ain't chasing.
I'm fricking chasing.

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I love the chase.

95
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Because then when I get them,
it's like, yes, come on!

96
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And then when I give them
my everything,

97
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they don't want me any more.

98
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So have you been out there
in the dating world?

99
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Unfortunately.

100
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Every single time I was with someone

101
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and thinking it was
going to go somewhere

102
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and then for whatever reason,
it just didn't,

103
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it was breaking me.

104
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I actually felt like
it was ruining my confidence.

105
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Yeah. I felt like I was disposable,

106
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but I'm more than that.

107
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My most recent relationship,
I was with my partner for six years.

108
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We split up
because I wanted to start a family,

109
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and we just weren't on
the same page any more.

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Like, I want to build a family.
I want what my sister has

111
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and what my mum and dad have had.

112
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And I've just never...

113
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Oh, sorry.

114
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It's OK, darling.

115
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I just think
I've never understood why

116
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I've never been...
like, I've never been chosen.

117
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I seem to give all my love
to someone

118
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and for them it's like, "Oh,
she's too much, she's too much."

119
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Do you think you are too much?

120
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Yeah.
CHUCKLES

121
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I don't think you are at all.

122
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You're not too much.
Thank you.

123
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All I want is to find someone.

124
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I come across really confident,

125
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but I'm a young girl at heart
that wants to be loved

126
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and taken care of and nurtured.

127
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I'm missing that love.
I feel like I really crave love.

128
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Oh, wow!

129
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Stunning. Gorgeous.

130
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If he doesn't like me in this,
I've got no chance.

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THEY LAUGH
Very true.

132
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My perfect husband would be
good looking,

133
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charming, good banter,

134
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masculine, good energy,

135
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hard working,
nice family, good values.

136
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I'm basically just describing myself
in a male version, I think.

137
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Come on, let's do this!

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Bonjour. How you doing?

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CHAIR CREAKS

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When people first meet me,
the first impression,

141
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they might think I was a bit, like,
maybe flash.

142
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Probably cos the looks.

143
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Without a shadow of doubt,

144
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I definitely consider myself to be
a pretty boy.

145
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The checklist before going out is,
is the barnet looking sharp?

146
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A few little squirts of the splash
either side,

147
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maybe even one at the back
in case they creep from behind.

148
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If I was to go for a certain woman,

149
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I would initially look at her teeth,
her smile.

150
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I get a bit silly and start even
looking into their walk,

151
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making sure they have a nice walk
as well.

152
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A good walk for a woman is

153
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when the legs sort of go one by one,
not side by side.

154
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With girls, I love talking about
the universe, aliens.

155
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An absolute, like,
sort of an alien would look like...

156
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..like someone like Megan Fox,
I would think.

157
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Even though I knew she was an alien,
I probably would marry her, yeah.

158
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I might look like
a stereotypical Essex boy,

159
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but there's a lot more to me
deep down.

160
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You get tarnished
with the same paintbrush, don't you?

161
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I've got my own business.
I do painting and decorating.

162
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You do the ceiling. Yeah.

163
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Leave the back wall to the master.
Lovely. Moi.

164
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Even though I am the boss,

165
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I still don't mind getting
my hands dirty.

166
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I've never been shy of
a bit of graft.

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I'll leave you to it.
Happy days. Thanks, mate. Good man.

168
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I'll see you in a bit. In a bit.

169
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I don't know.

170
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Two lemon teas, here.
Thank you, darling.

171
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I'm very close to my family.

172
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Feeling lucky? Always.

173
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My nanny. My nanny Linda.

174
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She's like an angel. Honestly, it's
like a woman fallen from heaven.

175
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She's my rock.
Love a game of chess with her.

176
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Are you ready for this?

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Are you ready for that?
THEY LAUGH

178
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My nan and grandad have had a
romantic relationship for years,

179
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and I look up to that.

180
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You're never bickering.
So that's what I'm hoping... Yes.

181
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..my marriage is going to be like.
I would hope that for you.

182
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I'm an old romantic.

183
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When I'm with a girl,
I always treat her very well.

184
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I talk to her nicely.
Open doors, open chairs.

185
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My future wife-to-be, do you reckon

186
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she's going to be impressed with
all my, like, romantic traits?

187
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You could be the perfect husband,
actually.

188
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I've learned from the best,
and I want a bit of that.

189
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I miss being in a relationship.
You can't really beat it.

190
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I don't know
if I found the full package.

191
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I do choose the wrong girls.

192
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My last relationship,
unfortunately, come to an end

193
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because the bickering
become too much.

194
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I've been heartbroken
in past relationships.

195
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When a girl leaves you, I feel
abandoned and I just feel lost.

196
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Marrying a stranger will work

197
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because I'm willing to do anything
to find the perfect one.

198
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Can you tell me anything about her?
I cannot.

199
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Not even... No.

200
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Do you think she'll love me?
Yeah, yeah. Oh!

201
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We want to see you happy.
And we want to see you settle down.

202
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It's about time.
And we want little pretty babies.

203
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Oh, yes. Me too.

204
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You're ready for this. Yeah.

205
00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,760
When I get married,
don't want to be having kids

206
00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,000
and breaking up. No way.

207
00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,480
I want to do my best to keep
that all bonded

208
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and sealed together forever.

209
00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:15,200
When I was seven years old,
I found out that

210
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my dad wasn't actually my real dad.

211
00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,960
Looking back at the time,
I was only a young nipper.

212
00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,240
I didn't really know
what was going on.

213
00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,640
It was just a bit of a whirlwind.
It was a lot to take in.

214
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That's why I got to do it properly.

215
00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,200
I've got one shot at it.
It's got to work.

216
00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,360
Why is this important to you?

217
00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,640
I need someone who's
going to love me for me

218
00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:42,200
and not just disappear when things
get a little bit tough. Mm.

219
00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,080
I've been through that all before.

220
00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,120
I'm definitely ready to settle down,

221
00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,840
and now is the right time.

222
00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,680
I've been in love.
I know what it feels like.

223
00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,720
Butterflies in your stomach,
you get that buzz.

224
00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:56,440
The best feeling you could have.

225
00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:58,120
I want to be in love.

226
00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,880
I want to find my forever person.

227
00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:02,760
I want that fairy tale.
I want all the love.

228
00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,000
I want all the trimmings.
I want the whole shebang.

229
00:11:06,560 --> 00:11:09,720
My ideal wife,
she's got to be beautiful.

230
00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:10,960
Nice smile.

231
00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:13,960
Someone who's kind,

232
00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,360
family orientated,

233
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who loves me.

234
00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,680
To have someone
who's the other half of you.

235
00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,680
Someone who you can share
all your dreams with.

236
00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,400
I would love to find
the love of my life.

237
00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,960
Leisha and Reiss. This couple
are a really interesting match.

238
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Lots of similar values
and qualities.

239
00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:41,680
After pretty much a lifetime
of romantic disappointment,

240
00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,840
Leisha's been looking for
her soulmate

241
00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:46,760
to settle down
and start a family with,

242
00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,440
and I'm confident
we've found that in Reiss.

243
00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:55,160
Leisha is a real presence with bags
of energy and a massive personality.

244
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She's worried that
she can be too much.

245
00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:01,840
She wants to be paired with
an equally unique character

246
00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,960
who won't be put off
by her larger than life nature.

247
00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:10,120
Beneath that loud exterior
is someone craving stability.

248
00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,200
Reiss is loyal, he loves his family

249
00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,480
and he's someone who doesn't take
relationships lightly.

250
00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,960
His experience as a child learning
about his biological father

251
00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,960
has clearly created a desire
for a solid family unit.

252
00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,720
He's ready to settle down.

253
00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:29,480
And just like Leisha,
wants the house, the kids,

254
00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:30,960
and someone to grow old with.

255
00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,960
Looks are important to them both,
but beyond physical attraction.

256
00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,960
Leisha will bring fun,

257
00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,960
warmth and passion into
Reiss's life,

258
00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,880
and Reiss will give Leisha

259
00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,920
the safety and commitment
that she needs.

260
00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,800
They're not just ready for love,
they're ready for each other.

261
00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,000
Reiss and Leisha.

262
00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,120
It's in-laws week. Yeah.

263
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,600
How do you think today
is going to go?

264
00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,840
It's gonna be interesting.
We've got a lot to talk about.

265
00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,320
Divarni and I really just
need to get on the same page

266
00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,360
in terms of how we move forward
and progress, seeing that

267
00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,200
our values are so different.

268
00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,160
We had a tough week.
Both of us seeing our family

269
00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:25,360
and friends is going to be
a reset for us.

270
00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,600
I literally can't wait just
to be out of the apartment

271
00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,000
for a little bit.

272
00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:34,040
Yeah, I couldn't run any faster
to go see them even if I wanted to.

273
00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,040
JJ and Drew are everything to me.

274
00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:39,680
They know me better
than I know myself.

275
00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,520
I just want to talk to them
about the honeymoon,

276
00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:43,680
everything that's kind of happened,

277
00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,680
all the challenges
that we've faced to now.

278
00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,520
Hi! Hi. Hi, how you doing?

279
00:13:51,560 --> 00:13:53,320
I'm so nervous.

280
00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,360
After a strong start
on their wedding day...

281
00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,680
Wow. It's love at first sight.

282
00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,960
He's got, like, soft lips.

283
00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,880
I'm just loving how this feels.

284
00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,760
On their honeymoon...
Whoo!

285
00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,160
..Divarni's energy levels...

286
00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,760
Growing up, was always alone.

287
00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,400
..failed to live up to
Julia-Ruth's expectations...

288
00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,360
I think the worst thing is that
I've always went through life

289
00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,880
questioning
why certain things happen.

290
00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,320
..causing a series of conflicts
for the couple.

291
00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,200
Just like a tornado of negativity.

292
00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,120
The last thing I want to do
is have a talk about traumas

293
00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,120
and then, like,
get into bed with you.

294
00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,840
There's trouble in Paradise, innit?

295
00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,240
When we were travelling
back to the resort,

296
00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,680
Divarni just started shouting
at me out of nowhere.

297
00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:41,240
One of my deal breakers
that I said is a temper and anger.

298
00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,400
This is not how I wanted
my honeymoon to go.

299
00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:46,680
It needs to be out there,
what we've been going through.

300
00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,840
They'll hear all the tea.

301
00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,880
All right, well,
I'm gonna go get ready.

302
00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:54,040
I'm ready to face the noise

303
00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,480
or to maybe solidify
and unify us into a stronger bond.

304
00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,680
I'm gonna see my babies,
and I'll see you later.

305
00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,240
Enjoy! Bye-bye. See you.

306
00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,360
Last night,
Davide and I had a disagreement.

307
00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,960
We went out for some drinks.

308
00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,680
I put on Davide's jacket,

309
00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,680
and he twice just told me
that I needed to do it up,

310
00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,680
which then made me feel like
I was being controlled.

311
00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,040
Then throughout the evening,

312
00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,320
became very frustrated
that I wasn't being heard,

313
00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,000
to the point that I raised my voice,

314
00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:33,680
just asking
when I was going to be listened to

315
00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,560
or when my feelings
were going to be heard.

316
00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:38,400
I got far too in my head about it.

317
00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,880
It's sorted and it's squashed.

318
00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:45,040
But, yeah,
it's just getting our groove back.

319
00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:46,400
Yeah.

320
00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,200
Here you go.

321
00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:54,920
You all right?

322
00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:58,440
Obviously there's a bit of
awkwardness at the moment.

323
00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,320
Yeah, it feels weird.

324
00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,880
Yeah. Energy has changed a bit,
but it's normal.

325
00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,640
We'll be OK.

326
00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,320
In-laws week is coming
just at the right time.

327
00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:09,680
I'm really excited.

328
00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,560
I miss my friends a lot

329
00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,040
and I think he needs to see
his family as well.

330
00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,560
There's a lot of good things
that we've been through.

331
00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,280
It's not just this fight.
We're good.

332
00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,000
Happy?

333
00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,120
Yeah. You're seeing your mum!
FLATLY: Yay!

334
00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:25,680
More excitement.

335
00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,160
No, I am, I'm excited.

336
00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,680
When I've met any guy,
I've said to them straight away,

337
00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,240
"Do you want to have a child
with me? Do you wanna get married?"

338
00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,960
I know what I want.
And I think I might scare him off.

339
00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,360
Obviously, we're getting married,

340
00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,160
so you can't get much more forward
than that.

341
00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,080
But I can be very direct
and very, like...

342
00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,600
Full-on. Full-on. And the questions
that I may ask him,

343
00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,240
like, there's no holding back.

344
00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,600
If I was allowed to,

345
00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:02,040
I'd go look for my husband
right now.

346
00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:05,200
There's no tracker
that's been put on his phone yet.

347
00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:07,240
Don't scare him off straight away.

348
00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:08,400
No, see, I think the opposite.

349
00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:09,920
I think scare him straight away,
right?

350
00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:11,560
No, Oh, my God! And then...
Oh, God.

351
00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,720
..he'll be like, "Oh, actually,
she's quite nice."

352
00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:16,520
THEY LAUGH
No, that's a really bad plan.

353
00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,160
Leisha is a lot to handle.

354
00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:25,280
She's very energetic,
bubbly, intense. So good luck.

355
00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,480
As soon as we see him, we'll know
whether or not you fancy him or not.

356
00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,360
Hope he fancies me as well.

357
00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,240
I know.

358
00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:35,600
Oh, God.

359
00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:40,040
I'm scared that I'm gonna see him
for the first time

360
00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,800
and he's just going to be like,
"Who's this?"

361
00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:44,680
Like, "Who is she?"

362
00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:50,280
I've just waited for this moment for
so long, and rejection is so scary.

363
00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,680
So everything
is riding on this today.

364
00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,680
You're so ready to meet your person
and your equal.

365
00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,680
That's all you want.
I just want to be loved.

366
00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:58,760
Yeah, you do.

367
00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,120
Today is the biggest day of my life.

368
00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:02,880
I've always dreamt of the house,

369
00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:06,680
my husband coming home from work
and me being the wife and the kids.

370
00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,720
So, I'm so excited.
I've wanted this for so long.

371
00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:15,840
How you doing, son?
How you doing, mate? You good?

372
00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,800
Good to see you. How are you
feeling?

373
00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,400
Yeah, all right. Not too bad.

374
00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:20,680
Today's the day I'm getting married.

375
00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,480
Getting a little bit more nervous,
but

376
00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,520
my pal Charlie, my best man,
is coming to help me get ready.

377
00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,120
Make sure my tie is straightened up,

378
00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,120
make sure
the barnet's looking fresh,

379
00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,800
and just give me
a couple of positive words, I hope.

380
00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,680
It's mad to think that she's there,
just around the corner.

381
00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:46,000
Yeah. And that gets me a bit...
A little bit jittery.

382
00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,400
But I will know if she's the one
pretty soon. Why?

383
00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:50,280
I just feel like I know

384
00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:55,680
if I've got that click with someone
within 24 to 48 hours.

385
00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:57,720
Fast, yeah.

386
00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,720
Today means a lot.
It means so much to me.

387
00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:05,080
I'm hoping to see the lady
of my dreams.

388
00:19:05,120 --> 00:19:07,200
And this is definitely going to be
the one.

389
00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:10,720
I've got big faith in it.
Mate, to be honest with you,

390
00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,240
the single life
and all that is done.

391
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,680
This is something
now to go to the next stage.

392
00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,720
Become an adult.

393
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,600
Mate, you're having to commit
to another person.

394
00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,440
Oh, a huge commitment.
I'm ready now, though.

395
00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:22,880
I want to settle down.

396
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,560
I want that married life -
slippers, dressing gown,

397
00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,640
newspaper, kids screaming.

398
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,880
Dressing gown and slippers
ain't that much to ask for.

399
00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,240
Mum, do you think this
is a good thing for me?

400
00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:40,120
Like... I think you've got nothing
to lose and everything to gain.

401
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:44,240
And I would always support you.
Because I just want you...

402
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,040
Aw! ..to be happy. Oh, bless you!

403
00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,000
I just want you to be happy. Oh!

404
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:51,680
Oh, I love you.

405
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,200
And I love you, too.

406
00:19:54,360 --> 00:19:57,520
This is all that Leisha's ever
wanted. And as a parent,

407
00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,800
that's what you want for your child.

408
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:02,720
I'm going to get quite
emotional now, actually.

409
00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:07,120
And I just want my daughter to be
happy.

410
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,320
That's all I want.

411
00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:11,040
Oh! Oh!

412
00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,480
LAUGHTER

413
00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,840
Oh, I love you. I love you, too.

414
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,040
Reiss always looks gorgeous.

415
00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,120
Oh! I can see her point.

416
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:30,960
Hello. Oh, you look lovely.
How you doing? All right?

417
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,480
You all right? Are you?
Mwah! Yeah. Good.

418
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,880
You look lovely. Lovely.

419
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,840
So lovely, darling.

420
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,480
Reiss, to me, has always had a
special place in my heart.

421
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,920
Are you a bit nervous? Uh, no,
I'm actually feeling all right.

422
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,160
I'm not too nervous yet. Good.

423
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,680
It's the proudest moment
for me to see him looking like that,

424
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,240
so handsome, on his wedding day.

425
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,840
I think she's a very lucky girl.

426
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,680
Thank you. Kind words.
You always look gorgeous, Reiss.

427
00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,200
Oh, thanks. They're even kinder
words.

428
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,320
You've grown into such
a lovely, handsome man.

429
00:21:00,360 --> 00:21:02,200
Thank you.

430
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,320
I see my nan so happy
for me and so pleased for me.

431
00:21:05,360 --> 00:21:08,240
It's beautiful to see.
It's a special moment.

432
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,160
Cheers to that. Cheers, darling.

433
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,440
Getting married will change my life.

434
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,120
It's just
that final piece of the puzzle.

435
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,120
I want that fairy tale.
I want all the love.

436
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,680
I want just, like, sparks flying.
It should be like a dream.

437
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:10,080
Hello, I'm Reiss.
How's everyone feeling?

438
00:22:10,120 --> 00:22:13,160
Nervous? Yeah? Are you...

439
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,240
..my future wife's mum?

440
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,280
I am. Oh, wow. OK, OK.

441
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,760
This is crazy.

442
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,440
He introduced himself, and to me,

443
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,520
that's a ten out of ten
in anybody's book.

444
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:50,000
I've wanted this day for so long,
and it's finally happening.

445
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,920
I have been rejected many times
in my past

446
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,560
because normally I can be too much
for guys.

447
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,200
It's the worst feeling in the world.

448
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,280
I want to be with somebody
that truly just loves me for me.

449
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,800
I hope that he looks at me
and thinks I'm

450
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,680
the beautifulest
girl he's ever laid his eyes on.

451
00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:14,880
This is scary.

452
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,200
Hi. Hello.

453
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,560
How are you doing?
I'm good. How are you?

454
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,000
How are you doing? I'm good.
What's your name?

455
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,120
Leisha. Leisha? Reiss.

456
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,680
Nice to meet you. Lovely to meet
you. How are you feeling? Yeah.

457
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,520
Nervous. Me too.
Yeah. It's all good.

458
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,080
I know. Wow. It's finally come, huh?

459
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,680
You look lovely. Thank you.
You look so nice as well.

460
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,200
First thing I noticed

461
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,880
was her beautiful green eyes
and her lovely smile.

462
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,440
She's a beautiful girl.

463
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,440
LEISHA LAUGHS

464
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:58,680
Oh, sorry. I'm just laughing

465
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,760
because I'm so nervous.
A little nervous?

466
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,840
Laugh away if it helps.

467
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,840
Reiss is gorgeous to look at.

468
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:13,720
He's tall, masculine, kind eyes,
really nice smile.

469
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,160
Good breath. Nice breath.
What more do I want?

470
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:18,680
I'm happy.

471
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,200
Welcome, everyone,
to this very special

472
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,240
and exciting wedding of
Leisha and Reiss.

473
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,720
And now I'd like to invite you
to read your vows.

474
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,120
To my future wife,
I'm looking forward

475
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,200
to all the beautiful
moments we will share...

476
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:47,120
..such as experiencing adventures,
exploring countries and cities,

477
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,560
getting up to mischief and waking
up to you every day.

478
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,320
I hope one day to start a family
with you,

479
00:24:54,360 --> 00:24:56,720
with a few babies
and a couple of doggies.

480
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:01,680
From this moment on,
I promise to care for you,

481
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,200
protect you, and comfort you.

482
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,640
I pray we can make each other happy
and laugh every day.

483
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,200
I hope this
is our happily ever after.

484
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:13,880
Oh, that's lovely!

485
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,880
That's so nice.

486
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,240
What I've asked for,

487
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,680
he has literally said in his vows.

488
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,240
Family, a dog,

489
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:28,080
somebody to have adventures with,
somebody to wake up every day with.

490
00:25:28,120 --> 00:25:31,240
They've matched us pretty perfect,
to be honest.

491
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,520
Ooh! When applying for this process,
they asked me

492
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:40,880
what I was looking for,
and it was an easy answer for me.

493
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,440
Pause. Oh... Oh, no, sorry, I
wasn't...

494
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,680
LAUGHTER

495
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,000
Sorry. Start again. Sorry.

496
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,960
I'm looking for a partnership,
a best friend,

497
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,720
a person to do life with,

498
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,160
and someone that loves me
for the person I am, inside and out.

499
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:04,840
I'm a sociable, fun-loving,

500
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,360
confident woman who knows exactly
what she wants.

501
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,440
And I hope I'm staring
at him right now.

502
00:26:12,120 --> 00:26:16,480
I know this process won't be easy
and we will have our ups and downs,

503
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,960
but nothing
in life is worth fighting for.

504
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,760
No, it is worth fighting for.

505
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,840
LAUGHTER

506
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,200
Ah!

507
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,000
Wait. Sorry. You've got this, girl.

508
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,600
I really fancy him.
I can't even look at him.

509
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,000
I'm really struggling to speak.
I'm so nervous right now.

510
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,640
Nothing in life is worth...that's
worth fighting for

511
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,640
comes easy. I promise to be kind
and respectful

512
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,320
to you throughout this
whole crazy journey,

513
00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:49,920
and hopefully fall in love along
the way.

514
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,160
Let's hope the words of

515
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,400
Kylie Minogue,
that this is love at first sight.

516
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,160
LAUGHTER

517
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,120
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

518
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,840
Leisha's vows... She's quite loud,
a little bit over the top.

519
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,440
That could drive me round the bend.

520
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,440
Contemplating, "Am I going
to be attracted to her?"

521
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,680
It's hard to tell.

522
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:14,000
Leisha... Yeah. ..do you take Reiss
to be your husband?

523
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,080
I do.

524
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:20,120
Thanks. Reiss,
do you take Leisha to be your wife?

525
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,640
I do. Good.

526
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,120
Leisha and Reiss, it is
my huge pleasure

527
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,040
to proudly pronounce you husband
and wife.

528
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,080
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

529
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,360
He kissed me on the cheek.

530
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,640
I mean, I kiss my nan on the cheek.

531
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,600
I kiss the dog on the lips.

532
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,840
You know what I mean? I was like,
"Where's my kiss on the lips?!"

533
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,480
She's a beautiful girl.
But I just want to get to know her,

534
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,920
to see if she is someone

535
00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:03,000
who I could see myself with
for the rest of my life.

536
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:07,320
At this stage, I'm not too sure
what else is about to be unravelled.

537
00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:10,440
I think I was expecting him being,
like, a little bit blown away.

538
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,320
I don't think my husband fancies me.

539
00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:16,880
It actually really petrifies me

540
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,200
because I don't
want to get my heart broken.

541
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,480
I can't wait to see her.

542
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,000
It feels like it's been a lot
longer than it has.

543
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,040
Right. In central London,

544
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,800
Julia-Ruth is meeting
up with best friends JJ and Drew.

545
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,960
Do you think she will be happy?
I hope so.

546
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,280
Me and Drew are really honest
as friends,

547
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,880
so definitely we're going to give
her some advice.

548
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,120
On the wedding day,

549
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,400
you could see that they had a spark.
They had a genuine connection.

550
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,120
But it's just going
to be more interesting

551
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,120
to see what day to day looks like.

552
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,680
I want to hear everything
about them.

553
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,680
We want to know the tea. Hmm.

554
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,040
HE SLURPS

555
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,560
Baby!

556
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,320
JULIA-RUTH SCREAMS

557
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,240
My hair! I don't care.

558
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,040
SHE SCREAMS AND LAUGHS

559
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,040
So happy to have my friends JJ
and Drew here to support me today.

560
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,120
I trust their opinion, what they
say.

561
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:19,000
They give the best advice.

562
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,200
So how are you? I'm good.

563
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:25,480
I think.

564
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,320
THEY LAUGH

565
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,360
What was that?

566
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,120
I don't know. Oh!

567
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,080
Wedding day was fab.
Nothing happened.

568
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,320
But we spent the night together

569
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,080
and we were going to our honeymoon
the next day.

570
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,720
The reality of everything kind of,
like,

571
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:45,080
really set in. We're in Morocco,
and we go on a camel ride,

572
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,480
which was amazing.

573
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,080
And I ask him, like,
"Is there anything you're scared of?

574
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,400
"Like, what do you fear?"

575
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,680
He says... Completely opposite of
where I thought he was going to go.

576
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,920
He sits on the camel and he's like,
"Nobody's ever going to love me."

577
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,440
What?! When I'm looking
for the humour and the fun,

578
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,640
I'm struggling
because everything ends

579
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,600
up feeling so fucking deep. Really?

580
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,320
So we have dinner

581
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,560
and I decide to sit
down with him and talk things out.

582
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,160
We end on a good note.

583
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,120
We say tomorrow's a new day.
Reset button.

584
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,640
Start afresh. Right?
I head back to the van.

585
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,240
I hear stomping, and I look
up and I open my eyes up.

586
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,560
Divarni's standing over me, yelling
at me, saying...

587
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:23,960
Yelling at you? Yeah.

588
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,120
Oh, that's scary.

589
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,760
The shouting thing... For me,
you don't shout at anyone,

590
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,280
especially in fresh relationships.

591
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,600
There's just certain things
that you just don't do to people.

592
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,680
Yeah, yeah.

593
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,680
If you have to yell to communicate,
you don't know how to communicate.

594
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,920
You've lost... Yeah.

595
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,000
That's my husband.
Shit. I know Julia.

596
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:55,760
The fact that he was yelling at her
for me is definitely red flags.

597
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:57,640
I'm really worried about her.

598
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,960
I'm really,
really excited to see Divarni today.

599
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,760
I have so many questions.
I want to know everything.

600
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,560
I'm here today to give any advice
that I can.

601
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,960
Hello. How you doing?

602
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,920
There's definitely a lot to catch
up on.

603
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,520
Welcome to my humble abode.

604
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,920
She knows that I'm not here to
sugar-coat stuff.

605
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,320
I will be 100%

606
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,720
transparent and honest
about how our marriage is.

607
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,360
So how's everything been
since the wedding day?

608
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,080
It's been a...it's been a
roller-coaster.

609
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,000
Start from the top.
When we got married,

610
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,560
literally, we shot off straight
off to, uh, Morocco.

611
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,600
But we had a hiccup.
Really went south real quick.

612
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,280
I opened up about, like, uh,
sensitive information about me,

613
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,760
but it was too heavy, innit?

614
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,880
And I felt like it was
an overload at that moment in time.

615
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,120
She took it as like, ah,
I'm badgering about,

616
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:54,600
"OK, you've had a bad past

617
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,040
"and you're not acknowledging
where you are now."

618
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,000
It wasn't that.
It was just me opening

619
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,680
up because I want to have
an emotional connection with her.

620
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,440
After the camel ride,
I approached her,

621
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,760
but it was bad delivery

622
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,600
because obviously my emotions
were high.

623
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,720
It got to a point

624
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,880
where she must have thought
that I was attacking her.

625
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,760
I had to take a step back and we
did end up sleeping separately.

626
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,920
It makes me sad to hear
that you've had these tiffs.

627
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,480
I can understand when you want

628
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,000
to be open with your partner,
and in their eyes,

629
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,600
they might have just needed a little
bit more time.

630
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:26,680
And it's gone left.

631
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,840
I can...I can appreciate
that you tried.

632
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,400
JULIA-RUTH: We did this task last
week.

633
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,040
We get given nine values and we have
to rank them.

634
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,520
The things are humour, intelligence,
ambition,

635
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,840
sex, looks...

636
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:46,720
His list - this is what he values
the least - is sex and looks.

637
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,520
DIVARNI: On her list of the first
ones, she put humour.

638
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,720
I put children. Obviously I've got a
son,

639
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,480
so that comes before anything else.

640
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,920
Anything. For her sex was, I think,
three or four on the list.

641
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,680
Her looks was second.

642
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,120
So that was a big difference
between the two.

643
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:07,280
JULIA-RUTH: He values work,
occupation and money and a partner

644
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,720
over someone you are physically
attracted to and connect with.

645
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,160
If he'd put it higher up, I think
I would have respected it more.

646
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,360
It just seems so fake.

647
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,240
TIA: I am quite upset,

648
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,080
the fact that children
is last.

649
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,360
Looks was right up there.

650
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,320
There definitely is a difference
in what she's looking for.

651
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:27,480
I'm very worried

652
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,560
that Divarni gets hurt
in this experiment,

653
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,360
because I know his character,
and it makes me feel uneasy.

654
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:40,000
What's the sex like, then? Like,
is any of...any of it going well?

655
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,880
Oh, shit. Oh.

656
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:46,960
Oh.

657
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,880
My toys have been in the box.

658
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,960
My toys have been left alone.

659
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:57,920
They're collecting dust.

660
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,280
Yeah. They're not connecting.

661
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,000
I feel for her because she's craving
connection with somebody.

662
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,280
The one thing that she wanted

663
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,160
is the one
thing that's missing right now.

664
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:15,000
Being 100% honest, I don't
think there is much compatibility.

665
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,080
I'm not optimistic at all.

666
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,960
We don't love what we've heard.

667
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,960
None of it's cute. Yeah.

668
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,000
And we do have some questions
for him.

669
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,160
TIA: I thought that everything was
really lovely at the wedding,

670
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,560
but after telling me what you did
for your values...

671
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,320
Yeah. ..that worried me. Mm-hm.

672
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,080
These things are not aligning.

673
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,080
It'll be interesting
to see his point

674
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,600
of view on how those scenarios went
down compared to yours.

675
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,480
Yeah. I can't wait to hear
his explanation.

676
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,840
And arm around your bride there.
That's it.

677
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,040
Here we go. Hang on.
I'm nervous now.

678
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,440
Yeah, but that's natural. OK.
Right.

679
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:02,760
Just...

680
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,480
And just looking at me here.
Really nice.

681
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:09,520
We didn't kiss! I have got no clue
if he fancies me,

682
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,720
which is, like, making me
a little bit crazy, because I think,

683
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,200
"Does he like me?
Does he not?" So, yeah,

684
00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:17,280
like, why didn't you kiss me at the
end?

685
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:18,840
Your dad was there.
Your mum's there.

686
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,560
I don't know.
I feel like you offered your cheek,

687
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,840
so I went for the cheek. No,
I need...I need you to take control.

688
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,640
Just like because I wasn't sure
whether you liked me or not.

689
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,000
I wasn't getting that vibe.
You're really hard to read.

690
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,760
When I meet a guy, I know
instantly, whether they,

691
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,880
like, want me or not, and they're
very, like,

692
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,360
forward with what they want. And...

693
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,920
Yeah. And I didn't get
that from you.

694
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,440
I'm just a bit of a closed book
in that sense.

695
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,200
Going straight in for the smooch...

696
00:35:46,240 --> 00:35:50,040
It's just...it's just a bit, I don't
know, too soon.

697
00:35:51,720 --> 00:35:55,000
What's your type?
So, like, my-go to would be

698
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,440
someone with, like, a nice smile,
nice eyes.

699
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,560
Someone I can have a bit of banter

700
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:01,240
with, someone
who does take care of themself.

701
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,640
Glamorous...
But you look super glamorous.

702
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,920
You definitely tick the eye box.

703
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,640
Would you mind just a kiss
for the camera?

704
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,000
Yeah. Is that OK?
That's it. And just...

705
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,240
CAMERA SNAPS

706
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,320
That was a long kiss. That's a long
kiss. I didn't know...

707
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,720
I just was like, "Oh,
just continue on."

708
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,800
That's all right.
I thought I'd leave you to it.

709
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,800
You seemed to be enjoying it.

710
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,080
Kiss is good. I just kept going.

711
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:33,800
I'm just kissing him,
kissing him, kissing him.

712
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,880
I was expecting him to,

713
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:39,400
like, pull back, but he didn't,
so I was like, "He likes me."

714
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:40,600
We're good.

715
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,160
Really lovely there, guys.
That was gorgeous.

716
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:47,760
It was more like a peck.

717
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,760
It wasn't really like an
intimate kiss.

718
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,120
Felt awkward because you could
hear the cameras

719
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,520
clicking away and you're just there,

720
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,920
like... It just wasn't
the natural kiss.

721
00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,800
It was literally just locking lips.
And that was it.

722
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,240
There was no passion there.

723
00:37:11,720 --> 00:37:13,880
I will always have Divarni's back.

724
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,880
There's a lot of things
that I want to ask Julia-Ruth

725
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,760
that are based around the wellbeing
of him.

726
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,280
You guys all right?

727
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,120
JULIA-RUTH: I think the situation
is really tense right now

728
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,640
because Tia has heard Divarni's side
of the story,

729
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,760
my friends have heard my side of
the story,

730
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:37,320
and I think it's who's going to
break the ice

731
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,680
and get the conversation started
and rolling?

732
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,080
I'm curious -
how did the honeymoon go?

733
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:55,800
Um, the honeymoon
was, like, great start, but

734
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,640
we definitely had our hiccups. Yeah.

735
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:02,120
I think for me, I was
struggling with having

736
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:03,680
a lot of deep, good chats,

737
00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:08,120
but then to find the balance
in terms of having the fun moments.

738
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:11,640
Right. Yeah.
So then we go onto the camel ride,

739
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,520
and then it turned into a spiral
of negativity

740
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,600
and him talking
down about himself quite a lot.

741
00:38:21,240 --> 00:38:22,520
I'm really concerned about

742
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160
what Julia told me,
about you yelling at her.

743
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:27,880
Personally,

744
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,720
I don't agree with people
that shout to communicate.

745
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,480
When it comes down to something
that's heavy on my chest,

746
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,400
that I need to get off, what
I've learned,

747
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,360
obviously I'm going
to have to take a step back.

748
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,840
Basically, just taking the space
if there's any form of conflict,

749
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,080
instead of just badgering
and just, I guess, attacking.

750
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,040
But... OK, but you're not taking
accountability there.

751
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:50,040
So now you keep... By doing this,

752
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,720
you're now taking away
from making it sound like...

753
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,800
It's making it sound like I'm
intentional. It's not about

754
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,480
intention, but acknowledge and
accept and don't backtrack on it.

755
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,960
I have. But doing this now takes
away from it.

756
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,680
Because you're making it sound like
it was intentional.

757
00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:01,760
Like, I came out and I was like,

758
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:03,240
"Oh, yeah, I'm going to just go
boom, boom, boom."

759
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,960
I'm not saying you have a
malicious bone in your body.

760
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,960
I'm saying that was the situation.

761
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,240
But that's what you did in that
moment.

762
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,280
Did I or did I not take
accountability for it?

763
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,040
You did apologise. I'm not taking
away from that, Divarni.

764
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,520
But right now, you're
taking away from that by saying,

765
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:24,920
"If I shouted."
You yelled at me multiple times.

766
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,600
SHE SIGHS

767
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,200
If I feel
like I've got my back against

768
00:39:39,240 --> 00:39:43,160
the wall and I'm being attacked
verbally, my body will shut down.

769
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,560
I have never seen Divarni
like this.

770
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:13,600
OK. I'm here.

771
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,240
This isn't normal.

772
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:33,120
OK. I'm here.

773
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,800
This isn't normal.

774
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,040
There's no connection.
We talk about it.

775
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:44,800
We, like, hash it out.

776
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,040
But then the penny doesn't seem
to drop.

777
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,960
And he is not seeing seen it.
He's not,

778
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:50,960
"I'm sorry
that I made you feel this way.

779
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,080
"This wasn't my intention,
to make you feel this way."

780
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,080
You know, as simple as that.

781
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,000
It's not all on you. It's not.

782
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,680
I understand that. Yeah, I
understand that. And that's

783
00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:12,960
why I'm very much listening
before I've got something to say.

784
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,520
OK? Yeah. But it's OK
because I'm here.

785
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:16,800
Yeah. OK?

786
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,400
I feel emotional
because I'm not being heard.

787
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,280
And I'm not the person
that she portrays me to be.

788
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,200
Yeah. He's feeling...feeling it, you
know?

789
00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:46,960
Because it's a lot.

790
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,040
In the sense of what he did was
wrong.

791
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:55,320
I can put my hands up and say, yeah,
the shouting, the behaviour.

792
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,320
But then there's certain things
that was said today

793
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,560
that have hurt his feelings,
as you can see.

794
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:08,120
I would think about
the type of words that you use.

795
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,400
Calling someone out
on something can be really damaging

796
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,720
to how someone
is actually feeling, too.

797
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,320
And these things can be a lot

798
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:22,040
in the sense
of dragging someone's character.

799
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:27,440
Sorry, but, yes, I understand,

800
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,760
but I feel like you're gaslighting
her feelings.

801
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:34,600
No.

802
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,160
No-one's gaslighting.

803
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,720
Because your feelings are valid.
Yeah, I've told you that.

804
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,520
I don't trust Julia-Ruth.

805
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,160
With the conversation,

806
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,920
the reactions, body language...

807
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,400
..something's just not sitting
right.

808
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,120
I need to know your intentions.

809
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:13,040
I need to know where your head's at.
Because if you want my support...

810
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,440
..then you got to be some type
of ready.

811
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,760
My intentions into this

812
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,840
is to meet someone,
to be out of the game.

813
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,320
I truly do want to find love.

814
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:34,440
Coming in, I hoped she was happy.
Mm-hm.

815
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:38,240
Honestly, I don't think she was as
happy as I thought.

816
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,760
I feel like the way you communicate,
I honestly don't think this is OK.

817
00:43:47,720 --> 00:43:50,080
Divarni, he lacks on accountability.

818
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,200
He is very defensive,
and it's not working.

819
00:43:53,240 --> 00:43:56,000
I'm worried about Julia.
I guess that's something

820
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,200
I'm just going
to have to work on.

821
00:43:58,240 --> 00:44:03,000
I really do want to make this work.
Let's move on from it and just get

822
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,080
down to why we're actually
physically here.

823
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,000
And that's what I'm standing on.
We have done this

824
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,960
for quite a few times,

825
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,880
and the actions are not matching
the words.

826
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:17,120
I don't need to hear anything.
Let's just do it.

827
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,200
Today was a lot.
My friends have my back.

828
00:44:20,240 --> 00:44:22,160
They have given me a lot
to think about.

829
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,880
So it is a make-or-break week
for Divarni and I.

830
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:27,800
Me being this emotional shows

831
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,920
that I obviously do care
about this relationship,

832
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:31,680
but I feel
like every time I'm one step closer,

833
00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:33,000
I'm getting one step back.

834
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:34,840
Gets to the point of,
"What more can you do?"

835
00:44:49,720 --> 00:44:52,400
How excited are you? Very.
How excited are you?

836
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:56,520
I feel good.
I think we are out of the funk.

837
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,200
Yeah, I agree. Mwah!

838
00:45:00,240 --> 00:45:03,280
Ah, the mood has shifted.

839
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:06,360
The clouds have lifted because D

840
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,480
and I have worked out the best
way to get out

841
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,760
of our funk when we are not
in the same rhythm.

842
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,040
And that is with a bit of rhythm
and blues.

843
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:18,040
Sometimes you just need a bit
of make-up sex,

844
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,760
and I've never really understood
that before

845
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,080
and now I very much do.

846
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,560
I think we were
both very much in our heads.

847
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,200
Yeah. And the best way to get out
of your head is to...

848
00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:28,560
Give some head.

849
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:29,840
BOTH LAUGH

850
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:34,120
I am so excited to be hosting.
It is completely me in my element.

851
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:35,480
It is what I do at home,

852
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:36,840
and we're hosting our friends
and family

853
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,320
after not seeing them
for such a long time.

854
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,560
Like, it's just... It's all perfect.

855
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:42,560
THEY LAUGH

856
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,640
Yay! And finish.

857
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,400
Awkward!

858
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,480
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

859
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,120
Congrats, guys.
Yeah, thank you very much.

860
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,200
What do you think?
I mean, he's really good looking.

861
00:46:09,240 --> 00:46:11,520
I actually fancy him.
He said loads of right things,

862
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,920
though. He did.
He said everything right for me.

863
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,760
I want to know everything, as much
as I can.

864
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,480
I'm super sexually attracted
to Reiss.

865
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,240
I really like him. I've got
so many questions to ask him.

866
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:27,640
Did you honestly think I was, like,

867
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,240
super attractive
when you first see me?

868
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,200
Were you, like, dead happy? When I
first set eyes on you. I was...

869
00:46:31,240 --> 00:46:33,280
..I was over the moon.
What's your exes been like?

870
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,440
What have they been like?
All different.

871
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:36,880
So you don't have, like,
a preference?

872
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,440
It's just kind of like vibe. I've
got to have that mind connection.

873
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,120
OK. Yeah. And do you get, like,
a lot of attention off girls?

874
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,320
When I go out? Yeah. Not really. No.
No?!

875
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:49,160
I'm so happy with the way things
are going with me and Reiss.

876
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,680
It's in my nature
to ask these questions,

877
00:46:51,720 --> 00:46:53,680
so I'm just going
to keep asking them.

878
00:46:53,720 --> 00:46:57,280
I'm just truly wanting
to get to know him to his core.

879
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,040
So how many exes have you
had before Leisha, then?

880
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,280
Four. Four exes?! Any psychos?

881
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,160
Luckily, I've never actually dealt
with a psycho.

882
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,680
I'm surprised. So why have your exes
not worked out?

883
00:47:07,720 --> 00:47:10,120
Why have your past relationships...?
Jealous?

884
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,680
Are you quite jealous?

885
00:47:15,240 --> 00:47:18,560
It started off as grilling.
There's a lot to take in.

886
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,560
Do you like the women? Oh...

887
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,920
Are you on the dating apps?
I don't do dating apps. No.

888
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,680
Do you prefer being
in a relationship?

889
00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:31,200
Oh, 100%. So I take it you do want a
family? Oh, 100%.

890
00:47:31,240 --> 00:47:34,520
Yeah. Yeah. So you like kids? Yeah.

891
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,840
I'm...I'm lost for words about it,
to be honest.

892
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,400
What would you call your child?

893
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,480
I like Frankie. OK. Yeah. Frankie.

894
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:47,360
Him telling me that he wants kids -
that is a massive turn-on for me.

895
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,400
Like, I'm ovulating,
you know? I'm like, "Oh!"

896
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,120
Well, they're still talking. I was
going to say. They haven't stopped
talking yet.

897
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,720
He will need earplugs
because she never shuts up.

898
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,120
She's like her dad.

899
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,360
Do you like the outdoors,
though, yeah? Yeah. Yeah. Me, too.

900
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,840
So are you into the gym and stuff?
Yeah, yeah. I box. Really?

901
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:09,080
Do you box? Hmm. Oh, see, that's
attractive. Can you cook?

902
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,240
Yeah. Can you?! Oh, lovely.

903
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:17,000
Leisha's got a lot of questions.
Feels like getting analysed.

904
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:18,800
She's 100mph.

905
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,080
But I hope it doesn't turn to,
like, 1,000 miles an hour.

906
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,320
I can't get no rest
and she's constant.

907
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,440
Reiss and Leisha. Leisha and Reiss.

908
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,680
It's nice. Aye.

909
00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:31,120
Aye, it is nice.

910
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,560
Look after my seat, yeah?
LEISHA LAUGHS

911
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,840
Keep it warm for you.

912
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:38,520
THEY LAUGH

913
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:39,800
So what are your thoughts?

914
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,760
Now I'm speaking to him, he just
seems so genuine and nice.

915
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,200
Oh, definitely. Look at him.

916
00:48:44,240 --> 00:48:45,800
He's always speaking to my family
and that.

917
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,880
That's so nice.
He's a proper gentleman.

918
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:49,880
Everyone enjoying themselves?
Are you OK?

919
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,840
I'm fine. How are you?
Do you like him?

920
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,600
Yeah. I know you like him.
Yeah, I'm getting good vibes.

921
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:57,320
I'm getting good vibes, too. He's
sexy. Of course he is.

922
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,280
I think you're going to get a
snog tonight. Mm-hm.

923
00:49:00,720 --> 00:49:02,360
I need to have a shower, though.

924
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,240
THEY LAUGH

925
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,480
The whole day feels like a fairy
tale to me.

926
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,360
He is the perfect man for me.
Literally.

927
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:13,040
I'm so happy. I see a future with
this man already.

928
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,600
I'm like buzzing.

929
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,480
I'm chuffed.

930
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,680
And how are you, Reiss? I'm good.
I'm very well, thank you.

931
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:25,120
I think Reiss is a genuinely
nice guy,

932
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:30,480
but I hope he's somebody
that will manage Leisha's excitement

933
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,400
because she functions
on nervous energy.

934
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,520
I am. I'm buzzing. Fucking buzzing,
man.

935
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,440
And it can also be exhausting.

936
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,880
At times, Leish can be a bit
full-on. She's an open book.

937
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:47,120
She's very, very open and honest.
You wouldn't find that off-putting?

938
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,160
As long as it's not constant.

939
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:55,240
See, when he said he was a boxer,
I was like, "Oh, that is hot."

940
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,000
I might shag him tonight, like.
I know you're his sister,

941
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,400
but I might do it.

942
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,960
I might be too much for Reiss.

943
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:08,800
He's got no idea
what he's got himself into.

944
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,000
Buckle up because he's
in for a good ride.

945
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,520
We're hosting our first dinner.
This is super cute.

946
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:30,240
I know. At the apartments,
Davide and Keye are preparing

947
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,840
for the arrival
of their friends and family.

948
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,120
How amazing does this lasagne look?
It's all good.

949
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,160
Do you want to do the honours?

950
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:41,320
It smells...
KNOCK ON DOOR

951
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:42,880
It's me. It's me. It's my door.

952
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:44,920
You good? Yeah.

953
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,880
LAUGHTER

954
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,640
I'm so happy. Hi, guys.
Oh, my God.

955
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:56,800
Please do come
in to Kiki Dee's treehouse.

956
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,480
How are you doing?
I'm good. How are you?

957
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,520
You're still together?
Yeah, of course we are!

958
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,520
Lots of worries. Lots of concerns.
How many rows have there been?

959
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,360
Has there not been rows?
Are they eating properly?

960
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,240
Are they looking after each other?
Are they sleeping?

961
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,720
I am needing to know
that they are OK.

962
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,280
We're very excited.
How have you both been?

963
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,000
Good. I now really love PDA.

964
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,240
All of the time. As you can tell.

965
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,080
It was from the wedding day.
We just kept it.

966
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,000
The same way we acted in the
wedding, like, we kept going.

967
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:30,840
So, have you had sex?

968
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,440
Not yet, Yvette!
I was actually going to ask you.

969
00:51:35,480 --> 00:51:37,680
When was the last time you had anal?

970
00:51:37,720 --> 00:51:39,800
Oh, do you know, like, over ten
years now.

971
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,800
I'm so sorry, Mum.

972
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:44,600
Just like... No, not that.

973
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:47,280
Like...just sex in general.

974
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,480
Not... Oh, my God. Seriously.

975
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,760
I'm done. I'm done. Done.

976
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,280
Dead. Deceased.

977
00:51:59,960 --> 00:52:01,200
KNOCK ON DOOR

978
00:52:01,240 --> 00:52:02,880
It's your turn. Yeah!

979
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:05,800
Lovely.

980
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,160
Oh, I'm going
to cry now cos she's crying.

981
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,160
Stop it, Mother. Drink your cremant.

982
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:16,920
Here. No, but it's just...

983
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,640
I want to know if Davide,
my best friend,

984
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,560
is doing well. And if he's not,

985
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:26,000
that will pose
as obviously a red flag

986
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,200
for me and I will want
to know what's going on.

987
00:52:29,240 --> 00:52:30,320
So one of the things

988
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,800
that I think everyone noticed at
the wedding,

989
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:38,000
like, you had chemistry instantly
and you are,

990
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,200
I would say, quite similar
in personality.

991
00:52:41,240 --> 00:52:43,800
How has that been?
It just complements. Weird.

992
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:48,560
So... Yeah. It's so nice to just be

993
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,080
a kid with someone and also have
these mature, emotional chats.

994
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,440
And just we were literally running
down the street

995
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,680
the other day with him giving me
a piggyback,

996
00:52:56,720 --> 00:52:57,960
pretending to be a T-Rex,

997
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,600
chasing one of the other people
in the experiment.

998
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,280
That is amazing. Like, and...
Then we go from that to sitting

999
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:05,480
and having these deep,

1000
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:07,960
emotional conversations about,
like, traumas we've been through.

1001
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,760
It's been very intense,

1002
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:13,640
very emotional.
It was really easy to fall for him.

1003
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:15,520
Likewise. Yeah.

1004
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,520
Has there been any volatility,
argument stuff?

1005
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,360
We had a fight, not going to lie.
OK. But everyone does.

1006
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:24,200
The whole experience is a lot,
and I think last week

1007
00:53:24,240 --> 00:53:28,560
was incredibly intense,
but we got back into our rhythm.

1008
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,600
How did you?

1009
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,840
No. D said something really
hilarious.

1010
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:34,960
Yeah. Go on! We want to know.
What was it?

1011
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,600
Tell them your really funny joke, D.

1012
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,360
It was great.
It was about this rabbit...

1013
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,640
That goes in a hole.
He was in a hole.

1014
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,320
And then suddenly everything's
happy.

1015
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,160
SHE LAUGHS

1016
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,480
I love that my mum got the
joke first.

1017
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,040
I have a rabbit.

1018
00:53:54,720 --> 00:53:57,400
I can't! I know where you get
it from now.

1019
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,560
I know where you get it from now.

1020
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,720
Oh, yeah. I'm having a hot flush.

1021
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,640
Clearly, they've been matched
for a very good reason.

1022
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,720
It's just really good
to see them today.

1023
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:16,160
They're adorable together.

1024
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:19,200
I'm a happy
mum of two boys right now.

1025
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:25,000
How are you guys looking at
the relationship?

1026
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,840
Like, what's it feeling like?
I've never had a relationship

1027
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,040
this strong

1028
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:33,240
or that I've been this open
and myself in.

1029
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:34,840
I'm not even slightly concerned.

1030
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,200
Anything, like, good or bad,
we go to each other like,

1031
00:54:37,240 --> 00:54:39,480
"OK, what is this about?
Like, why do you feel like that?"

1032
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,600
And we just talk about it.
It is...

1033
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:43,400
Is the L word there?

1034
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,200
Are you in love?

1035
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:54,760
No, I am in love with him. Yeah.

1036
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,440
He knows that.

1037
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,480
100% love him. Love him to pieces.
Can't imagine my life without him.

1038
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,200
Yes. I'm in love with Davide.

1039
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:12,760
I've known I was in love with Davide
from the moment I met Davide.

1040
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,680
I can't lie to Saha.
I can't lie to my mum.

1041
00:55:14,720 --> 00:55:16,400
She's going to see through it,
even if I do.

1042
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,000
Yeah, I love him 100%. Completely,

1043
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:22,520
completely and utterly in every way.
Completely besotted.

1044
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:26,040
Yeah. Besotted. Besotted. Aw!
We just didn't say it

1045
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:27,720
because I think there was no need
for it.

1046
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,920
But I wouldn't change it.
Sometimes you don't need the words

1047
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,160
because it's the feeling
and it's the actions, isn't it?

1048
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,520
Yeah. I love him. I love Keye.

1049
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,640
I fell in love with Keye for Keye.
We both want to make it work.

1050
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:43,920
And I know he cares and loves me.
I know. I can feel it.

1051
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,520
I can honestly say I'm going home
today...

1052
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,960
..feeling incredibly proud of the
two of you.

1053
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,520
Keep being open, please.

1054
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,200
Explore all the issues
that you've got

1055
00:55:57,240 --> 00:55:59,080
and move forward together

1056
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,000
in such a positive way
that you'll never look back.

1057
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,400
And I'm going home with no worries.
Oh!

1058
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,560
That makes me happy.

1059
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:09,880
That makes me really happy.

1060
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:11,920
Sorry! No, don't apologise
for feeling yourself.

1061
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,960
Feel those emotions, girl.
OK. Yeah.

1062
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,800
I'm OK.
Going into the week ahead,

1063
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,320
I'm excited. We're in a really,
really great place.

1064
00:56:20,360 --> 00:56:21,560
We've both had
that time with our friends

1065
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,280
and family and kind of got
that stamp of approval

1066
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,440
and shown them and ourselves
that we're happy and we're content,

1067
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,200
and this is going
in the right direction.

1068
00:56:29,240 --> 00:56:31,560
I mean, we're in love.
What more could you want?

1069
00:56:36,240 --> 00:56:37,880
NARRATOR: Next time...

1070
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:39,280
I've had relationships,

1071
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,520
but never the kind
that last forever.

1072
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:45,200
..the final bride
and groom join the experiment.

1073
00:56:45,240 --> 00:56:47,080
There's so much riding on today.

1074
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,560
I've never been more ready
in my life.

1075
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:51,280
Cheers, everyone. Cheers.

1076
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:54,600
And as more couples reunite
with loved ones...

1077
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:57,320
Have you discussed yet coming out?

1078
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:00,320
..Maeve is forced to confront
what lies ahead.

1079
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:03,400
We've not actually had
that talk yet.

1080
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,280
I just hope it's not too good
to be true.

1081
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:10,080
Were you disrespectful?
Well, I said that I'd

1082
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:11,560
got a bit of the ick.

1083
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:14,840
Fucking muggy!

1084
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,000
While Dean is left questioning his
marriage to Sarah.

1085
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:19,600
I don't want to ever
be disrespected.

1086
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:23,360
She needs to not be allowed
to say shit and get away with it.

1087
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,560
Do I let go or do I stay and
fight?

1088
00:57:59,520 --> 00:58:02,480
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